For the Wall Builder, loneliness often stems from moving too slowly when forming new relationships. You are careful not to invest too quickly, but can be too suspicious of others’ motives and miss making connections with healthy people. 

When it comes to the anxiety of relationships, you may not put enough time and effort into building connections, often to protect yourself from being suffocated by someone else’s needs. Healthy boundaries will help a Wall Builder recognize emotionally safe people more quickly, and attract relationships that are based in mutual giving and receiving.